Life goes on...

As one of my friends says.."there is balance in everything nature has to offer"...take the case of an atom..electrons and protons balance each other..nothing remains in its state of high energy,everything comes back to its original energy state..so wat basically i want to say is that people are better off in their original energy states.But sadly people dont understand.They keep on trying to be something they are not and in the process enter into a high energy orbital and then give out energy (read:vibes) which others dont like..People might find it quite a anti-thesis to what i had written earlier but you cant change the thought process of a person,i dnt know myself what i want to write till i finish.This is a way for me to shed that higher energy state and come back to peace with myself.Lets get back to the topic,so lets see cases when people are in higher energy states,1.Newly married (dnt laugh,you would realise it later)2.Nouveau riche3.In a relationship(similar to 1 but quite different in working)4.Newly promoted and the list might be endless...Lets see all of them,all of them have one thing in common - a sense of achievement but when u interact with a person whoz been in a relation ship and is married would tell you everything would fizz out in a matter of months..initially you want to impress the others arnd u and show them how good you are but slowly you get back to ur true self and that is when you are at peace with urself..tats when u work the best..tats when u r in control of urself..how a newly promoted person behaves is a truth anyone and everyone in this world would know..not in control,trying to do things to show his worth..trying to be the boss..but he/she is at his best if he/she tries to be himself..and tats wat pple liked initially which made him get promoted...but wat is tat makes us do things which we wont do normally,is it desire..is it hope..is it passion..the answer is no to all those..it is in fact not being in peace with urself...nt being in control of urself..if humans understand that they work the best when they are themselves then half of the problems of life would be solved and we would be more effcient and better in whatever we do..i am not an authority on this but just sharing wat i have felt over the years...but as i had said in my previous blog..HOPE ..i hope i am correct and HOPE that people understand the wisdom in being themselves and doing their best rather than trying to go to an orbital which is not meant fr them..as someone has said rightly.."home is where the heart it"...:)

PS: Apologise to all those who have not gone thru the torture called chemistry..they might find words like "orbital","energy states" a bit alien but um sure with google around they still can figure those things out..
Would like to thank all those who appreciated wat i wrote before specially amit ,tutu,singhania,RD,Tarang ...thanks..

I was just browsing through some of my old mails and a thing struck me..how can similar things happen to you with an exact interval of a year..??? This is so unlike wat life is...life as i understand from the definition of the various philosophers is something which is very irregular,very indefinite,very unpredictable...!!! so how can similar things happen to me then like that...a few moments of introspection and serious thought gave me my answer..it is me who by my own actions,by my own behaviour asks for what happens to me...its nt someone else who decides it for me..it is me..as they say a man is a master of his own destiny..!!! So many nice things are waiting to happen in my life and i have turned my back to them..why..why do we want to get somethings which we cant get..why always we yearn for things which are beyond our reach..y is tat the grass is always greener on the other side..??? we can take that in a completely different perspective...i have so many things i should be proud of...but yes i have somethings which i dont have..which always keep me going..these are the things which make me work..which make me desire..which make me keep going..which make me focussed..which make me LIVE...and i guess tats life is all about..u have things..but there are somethings which you dont have..go for them..never lose hope..never give up..and as they say...perseverance always pays..it hasnt still for me..but i havent lost hope..hope it does fr u as well..!!!